Wrong quantities. Colours that don’t match. Typos that only appear after printing. Here’s what to ask before you order anything.
This happens more often than you’d think. The invitations arrive. They’re beautiful. You open the first one to check and something cold runs through you. The date is right. The names are right. But the venue address — you used an old version of the wording, before you confirmed the postcode. 120 invitations. Already printed. Non-refundable. A reprint will cost more than the original order and won’t arrive in time.
Stationery is the supplier category where the small questions matter most. The ones that seem too obvious to ask — did you approve the proof? Do you know the exact quantity you need? Have you checked the postcode? — are precisely the ones that lead to expensive reprints, missed deadlines, and that cold-running-through-you feeling when the box arrives.
This guide gives you everything to ask, check, and confirm before anything goes to print. If you’re still working through your wider supplier team, our complete supplier trust guide has the contract and deposit basics that apply to every booking.
01. What Wedding Stationery Do You Actually Need?
Before you speak to a single stationer, know what you’re ordering. Wedding stationery falls into three stages — pre-wedding, on the day, and after. Each has a different timeline and a different budget implication. Many couples over-order pre-wedding items and under-order on-the-day items. Know what you want from each stage before you start.
Pre-wedding stationery: Save the dates · Invitation suite (invitation, details card, RSVP card) · Wedding website cards · Accommodation information inserts
On-the-day stationery: Order of service / ceremony programme · Table plan / seating chart · Table names or numbers · Place cards · Menus · Welcome sign · Bar sign · Hashtag sign
Post-wedding: Thank you cards
You do not need everything on this list. Save the dates are optional. A printed order of service is optional. A table plan is not optional if you have assigned seating. Start with what’s essential for your specific day and add from there — not the other way around.
The quantity rule: you need one invitation per household — not one per guest. A couple living together gets one invitation. Order approximately 75% of your total guest count, then add 10–15 extras for the photographer (stationery detail shots are some of the most used wedding photos), keepsakes, and last-minute additions. It is always cheaper to over-order than to reprint.
02. The Stationery Timeline — When to Order What
The single biggest stationery mistake couples make is leaving it too late. Custom stationery takes 6–12 weeks from design approval to delivery — and that’s before you factor in the time to finalise your guest list, gather addresses, and get everything into envelopes. Here’s a realistic timeline working backwards from your wedding date.
💡 Finalise your guest list before you approach any stationer. Your guest list determines your quantity, which determines your quote. A stationer cannot give you an accurate price without knowing how many invitations you need. And once you’ve placed an order, adding 20 more is expensive.
03. The Questions to Ask Before You Order Anything
01. Can I see physical samples — not just photos on your website?
Screen colours and printed colours are never identical — especially for blush, dusty rose, sage green, and any metallic or foil finish. What looks perfect on screen can print completely differently, particularly if you’re matching your stationery to your flowers, bridesmaids’ dresses, or venue décor. Always ask for a physical sample before you commit. Most professional stationers offer them — sometimes for a small fee.
02. What is your full lead time from design approval to delivery?
Not from enquiry — from design approval. Some stationers quote overall project timelines that assume you’ll have final wording ready immediately. In reality, finalising wording takes time — particularly names, the ceremony address, and RSVP logistics. Get the answer in two parts: how long from first contact to design approval, and how long from approval to delivery. Then work backwards from when you need invitations in guests’ hands.
03. Will I receive a digital proof before anything goes to print — and what is your revision policy?
This is non-negotiable. Nothing should be printed without your explicit written approval of a proof. Ask how many rounds of revisions are included and whether additional changes carry a fee. Read the proof more than once. Then read it again. Check every date, every name spelling, every address, every time, every postcode. Get a fresh pair of eyes on it. Typos in proofs are almost always spotted by the person who didn’t write the wording.
04. What exactly is included in your quote — and what costs extra?
Envelopes, envelope addressing, wax seals, belly bands, ribbon, tissue paper inserts, postage estimates — all of these can be extras that significantly change the final cost. A quote that looks competitive often isn’t once these are added. Get a written, itemised breakdown.
05. Can you supply all my stationery — pre-wedding, on-the-day, and thank you cards?
Ordering everything from one stationer keeps the design consistent across your whole wedding — the font on your table plan matches the invitation, the menu matches the order of service. It also means one relationship to manage rather than several. Ask whether they cover the full suite, what the lead times are for on-the-day items, and whether there’s a discount for ordering everything together.
06. What are your minimum order quantities — and what happens if I need to reorder?
Many stationers have minimum order quantities — often 20–25 units. If you only need 8 extra invitations, you may have to pay for 20. Understanding this upfront informs how many extras to order in your initial run. Reprinting a small quantity after the fact almost always costs proportionally more than ordering extras upfront. When in doubt, add 10% to your estimate.
07. Can you give me a postage estimate — and have you checked that the design fits standard envelope sizes?
Wedding invitations that are square, oversized, or unusually shaped often require large letter postage — which costs significantly more than standard. An invitation suite that pushes over 100g also moves into a higher postage tier. A stationer who has designed and sent dozens of suites will have a clear answer on this. One who hasn’t may produce something beautiful that costs you an unplanned extra £1–£2 per invitation to post.
08. Do you offer eco-friendly or sustainable paper options?
If sustainability matters to you, ask specifically about recycled paper stock, plantable seed paper, and FSC-certified materials. These options are increasingly available across all price points. Some sustainable materials have different printing characteristics — textures that affect certain printing techniques — so it’s worth discussing this early in the process rather than at the proof stage.
09. What is your cancellation policy — and what happens if I need to make changes after placing the order?
Once a stationery order goes to print, changes are typically not possible. Before print, changes may incur a fee for additional design time. Understand exactly where these lines are — and what you’re entitled to if a significant error is made on the stationer’s side rather than yours. Read the contract before you sign.
04. Printing Methods Explained — Which One Is Right for You
The printing method affects the look, feel, and cost of your stationery more than almost any other decision. A good stationer will guide you — but understanding the basics means you can have a more informed conversation.
🖨Digital print — the most affordable and most flexible
High-quality inkjet or laser printing. Produces excellent results, particularly for designs with photography, gradients, or detailed illustration. Fastest turnaround. Most accessible price point. The right choice for most couples who want beautiful results at a sensible cost.
✉Letterpress — the tactile luxury option
Ink pressed directly into thick cotton or uncoated paper, creating a beautiful debossed impression you can feel. Produces an unmistakably premium result. Significantly more expensive and slower than digital — and works best with simple, clean designs rather than detailed illustration or gradients.
✨Foil print — maximum visual impact
Metallic or holographic foil applied to the paper surface using heat and pressure. Gold, rose gold, silver, and copper are most popular. Stunning in photographs and immediately legible as premium. Higher cost, longer lead time, and works only with specific design elements — not solid backgrounds or detailed photography.
🌿Engraving — the most traditional and the most expensive
The reverse of letterpress — ink is raised from the paper surface. The most traditional formal printing method, associated with the most formal invitations. Rarely seen at UK weddings today except for very formal occasions. The costliest option by a significant margin.
💡The best value upgrade: digital print on thick, textured paper stock looks and feels considerably more luxurious than digital print on standard card — for very little extra cost. Ask your stationer about paper weight and texture options before deciding on printing method. Sometimes the paper matters more than the process.
05. Red Flags to Watch For
⚑ They won’t send a proof before printing.
No exceptions. Every professional stationer sends a digital proof for approval before anything is printed. A stationer who doesn’t offer this, or who makes you feel like it’s unnecessary, is not a professional stationer.
⚑ They can’t show you physical examples of their work.
Online photos don’t show paper quality, print consistency, or how colours translate from screen to physical. A stationer who can’t or won’t send samples is asking you to spend hundreds of pounds on something you haven’t actually seen or touched.
⚑ Vague answers on lead times.
“It usually takes a few weeks” is not a lead time. You need a specific timeline from design approval to delivery. Vagueness here means either inexperience or a workload problem — neither of which is your problem to absorb when you have a wedding date.
⚑ They push you to approve a proof quickly.
Pressure to approve quickly is pressure to skip the careful check that prevents expensive mistakes. A professional stationer wants you to take the time to review properly — because a reprint caused by an uncaught error is a problem for both of you.
⚠️On wording your invitations: finalising your invitation wording takes longer than most couples expect. You need to agree on: your names as they appear on the invitation, the ceremony venue full address, reception venue details (if different), dress code wording, RSVP method and deadline, dietary request instructions, and any additional insert wording. Start a draft document early and share it with both families — then share the agreed, final version with your stationer. Never send wording that hasn’t been signed off by everyone who needs to be consulted.
06. Your Pre-Order Checklist
- Guest list finalised — you know your exact quantity before requesting a quote
- Requested physical samples before committing to any stationer
- Received a written, itemised quote covering all elements including postage estimate
- Understood the full lead time from design approval to delivery
- Confirmed proof and revision policy — nothing prints without written approval
- Checked whether the design fits standard envelope sizes for postage purposes
- Ordered 10+ extras beyond your calculated quantity
- Agreed final wording with partner and both families before sending to stationer
- Read the proof carefully — and had someone else read it too
- Confirmed on-the-day stationery timeline and whether it’s included in the quote
- Read the contract including cancellation and amendment terms
- Checked reviews on Hitched, Bridebook, and Google
Your wedding stationery is the first thing guests receive from you — the first physical impression of your day before they’ve even arrived. Done well, it builds excitement, sets the tone, and gives guests the practical information they need without stress. Done carelessly, it costs money, causes panic, and starts your planning journey on the wrong foot. The questions above take 20 minutes to ask. The mistakes they prevent can take months to fix.
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